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It saddens me sometimes to see women whose sense of self-worth is set by what others think, but I recognize it happens.
In addition to suggestions you've been given, I'd encourage you to reach out to those for whom the "ideal" isn't 150 picture-perfect women. Many women may be avoiding rush, or greek life in general, because they see the group rather than the individuals. If your sisters relish their individuality, don't try to hide it.
And please don't push your sisters to an exercise routine. Making it available is wonderful; making it required takes all the motivation out of it.
Why do you feel the need to be at total? Is it pressure from a headquarters? Filling a house? Other financial concerns? It may or may not make a difference, but you have to understand the motivators among yourselves before you can change things.
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