Ivy, your daughter is right. It is superficial and shallow, but as I've said here, it's what we're stuck with. And there are chapters that are fantastic that suck at the superficial and shallow. Really try to convince her to follow through. If she joins and still feels the same at initiation, drop then. But if she goes in, does the work, meets the girls and otherwise fully participates, her mind will be changed. I can almost guarantee it. It really does not help that this is so stressful, she's away from home for the first time, she's sleeping in a new bed, it's hot.... all of these things add up to nothing but frustration. I'm sorry about that.
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