sisters are always better than friends
Just got some shitty news, I found out my grandmother has skin cancer, and I am very very very close to her, she is going in on Thursday for surgery.. I know that skin cancer is one of the " better cancer" ( if there is such a thing) to have, and but we don't know how far along it is, or how much it has spread or anything like that.... we won't know more till the Thursday..
Needless to say I called a friend who has called on me NUMUROUS times in their hours of need... ( in fact one of them was last night) yet they couldn't rouse them selves out of bed enought to figure out that something was wrong.... this hurt me GREATLY because I would and have gone to great lenghts for this person, yet the favor was not returned... so among other things it hurt me a lot, gave me a wake up call to how much they put in to a friendship yet don't give back....
Anyways I called my best friend/sister and they knew as soon as they answered something was wrong... she offered to come and get me and take me out for ice cream and was just there for a great cry and cried with me and listened to me... just made me glad that I have such a support system when I need them ...no matter what your chapter's ranking on campus this is what sisterhood/brotherhood is about... being there for your sisters and brothers ... just knowing I could call her and just cry about this makes me so greatful that I have joined my GLO....
sorry for the randomness of this but I just needed to vent...
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