Where to find recommendation letters?

[nolesgirl]

I will be rushing this fall at my college, and right now I am trying to garner my recommendation letters. I have a few, from a friend's mom, a cousin, and a woman who I wa sput in contact with who works for a chapter at my school. I am still going through every connection I have and still know of more places to ask, but for the most part, I am not coming up with anyone I know of who was in a sorority in college, and am getting pretty desperate about getting my rec letters. I have spoken with the Panhellenic Association for the town where my college is, and they were very helpful, but I emailed the woman from the Panhellenic Association in my hometown and I have not heard anything back, and I can't even find the website; I got her email address from somewhere else. Where else can I find recommendation letters? I am really stressed about this.

Also, I would like to send a thank-you note to the woman who helped me at my college, but I don't know where to send it to! We only really communicated via e-mail, and she was very brief about it I didn't want to drag it into this whole big thing. But I never got her address. She is the recruitment advisor for one of the chapters, would it be appropriate for me to send a thank-you note addressed to her to the sorority house? Or can I email her again and ask for her address?