I'd say not now and here's why:
It sounds like you're thinking long-term with this guy, and that's fine. But, won't getting married be a little anti-climactic if you've already basically lived like you're already married? What I'm getting at is this: you have the REST OF YOUR LIFE to get married & play house. Don't do it now. Save it as a bridge you'll cross once you get married. Otherwise, there's nothing left to make marriage special. And, if the worst happens and y'all don't wind up making it last, then you've already done everything with him that you'll do with whoever you marry one day. At least try to keep 1 thing special for that awesome guy you'll marry one day. I PROMISE it's worth it to wait!
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