I guess there are both pros and cons in dating a Greek man. (I cannot say about GDI's, although I am friends with a lot of them, I've never been involved with one). Like most of you guys already said, they understand the commitment you have to your organization:time constraints (like those chapter meetings that can take FOREVER),financial issues, responsibilities, etc. You guys are on the same boat when you're talking, like if you guys talk about some aspects of your pledge semester you can see where one another is coming from...and of course, you guys never run out of formals,semi formals, etc to go to (and i love dressing up.Anyway, the negative aspect in my experience with my boyfriend who is a Sammy (in a different university) is that we just have to trust each other when we have our own separate mixers or functions to go to. We cannot be there to watch each other but thank god we love and trust each other enough not to do anything despite all the "temptation". I would say that a Greek long distance romance could be slightly different than a typical long distance romance coz there are more "complications" like groupies, etc. But i think in terms of the guy's character, it's really up to the guy, coz I've had experiences with other fratboys who were just plain immature, just want some ass, and they were just dogs, i was so ready to give up on greek men...thankfully my bf came along and convinced me that not all greek guys are like that! =)
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