missing a night of recruitment

[maddisaurus]

i told my rho gamma from the beginning that i was going to be missing part of tonight, and i was told that that was fine. i assumed that i would just be visiting my top two, not two random out of my top four. this isn't my failure to plan ahead. my understanding was that i would be able to visit my top choices - since i just found out that's not how it works, i was hoping for advice.