Blacklisted

[Barbie's_Rush]

Originally Posted by honeybee3383

Yesterday my friend was at some high up university meeting where a girl from XYZ and a boy from ABC were talking about how I am apparently blacklisted from every sorority on campus by the university I attend due to the fact I was interested in starting my own chapter here...which I realized I didn't want to do. What exactly is blacklisting...how do I get off...and is there really such thing as a blacklist?

Originally Posted by honeybee3383

Like bringing another chapter here of ABC or DEF or XYZ. I apologize for that error.

Originally Posted by honeybee3383

I'm a junior and I transferred in the fall to a new school. I went through spring recruitment to see if Greek Life was for me and didn't get any invites back the first day after a terrible rumor about me went around.

Would it be smart to go through again the fall? I am staying a year behind so I'll still be a junior...but I also don't want to look desperate.

So first you failed to receive any invites back after the first day of recruitment and blamed a "horrible rumor." And it had nothing to do with your shitty GPA, junior status or sparkling personality. Now you're blaming the fact that you wanted to lead an expansion effort.

It's time to look inward. Sorority life isn't in the cards for you and it has nothing to do with horrible rumors, your desire for expansion, imagined "blacklisting" or any other external reasons.