HEY !!
my parents weren't really against me joining a sorority... but didn't really understand the whole deal. I agree showing them after you've joined that nothing horrible has happened to you and that your grades are doing just fine, I really don't see how they could have anything against it. About the financial form.. I know my soror has a form like that... but if you are financially independent they don't have to sign it, so definitely just make sure about that ahead of time.. also if the group you get a bid from does require both signatures.. maybe you could contact the nationals your self and explain and they maybe able to work something out ?? Maybe not.... but just a suggestion. HAVE A GREAT RUSH and don't worry too much I know going against your parents wishes is hard, but you have done your research and know what an amazing experience this could be for you. I"m sure your parents will learn this in time. OH YEAH Lauren just to let you know Phi Sig has a alumna ceremony, no pin ... but we do have ritual for woman who are going alum.