I am glad you never feel bad about yourself when someone else gets something and you don't. Maybe he needs your confidence to not feel beneath others when they succeed. The reason he quit wasn't his fault that other person did something really hurtful. He tried to go back to other bids he had gotten and they did invite him back but it just was weird and I understand that. The thing is he was given the bid he wanted by a top frat which is something to be proud of but then it went South. He has friends in the "smart" frat and whatever others but he just didn't belong as a brother. How can someone not belong? If every frat has some not so cool guys why can't he make it? I have never met a girl to have these issues. WE fit in and find a house.
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