sorry I was shallow but i do feel this was a legit concern. For the future, if i run into someone of a different fraternity and they find theta chi on their college as a pushover chapter, i'm pretty sure they'll put me in that category as well.
but you guys are correct, the way you present YOURSELF matters more then what fraternity you're part of. any sterotype that person put you in will disappear once you present yourself better.
I will stick with my chapter because they are the best bunch of guys i've ever met. It bothers me a bit that potential big and known party schools i'll visit has some not-very-social chapters but I'll manage.
you guys were a bit rough on me (probably because i sounded like a thick-headed dickwad) but totally right
Last edited by skparagon; 03-16-2010 at 11:35 PM.
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