does being greek help you to find relationships?

[James]

I thought that being Greek tended to help boys and maybe hurt girls a little.

If you are a shyer or less socially adept boy, being greek will allow you access to parties, socials, events etc that you wouldn't normally be invited and which will give more opportunities to meet women.

Also being greek will expose you to the same women over and over again making you familiar and safe. Thus increasing the likelihood that one will find you more attractive because of the exposure principle.

So yes, being greek will make it much more likely you will date. And probably date "up" so to speak.