does being greek help you to find relationships?

[Xanthus]

Originally Posted by NoToGovtHealth

whats up guys? ive been lurking here for a while, and researching a little bit about going greek. i am a student at a state school with a greek system that makes up the minority of the population -- im a freshman, and i really dont feel like i fit in here at all like i did in high school. i have less friends, less people that i can really relate to, and worst of all, less prospects when it comes to dating. i probably should have gone to a larger, i guess you could say more "elite" institution, but i am unable to transfer schools (for reasons i wont go into here).

i found the greek system at the beginning of the year, and socially, the fraternity ive been hanging out with the most has been nothing great -- a real diamond in the rough i guess you could say. im gonna rush in the spring for sure, and if i get a bid i think it will be very beneficial to me socially. the one question i have though, is how beneficial? did many of you find your SOs through the greek system? did you find many friends in general, or was it limited to just your house?

thanks a lot

Give me one reason why you're having a hard time getting a chick without going greek. If you can't get chicks outside of being greek, you won't inside either. Grow some balls and have fun dude.