The exact thing I said was, "I can see myself in this sorority, but I don't know if I will be happy. Its like getting married to someone I've only known for one day." I was mostly concerned with being a good fit. The only person I had to talk to was my Pi Chi and other people I've talked to since belief that informal can help me make a more informed decision.
The ones I want now aren't the ones that rejected me honestly. The ones that invited me back for pref were very genuine and I could tell that they really loved each other and I didn't feel weird when I was there. I think the whole making a choice and voting make me over think the situation.
So, after I contact the greek life office how should I go about making sure the sorority understands where I was coming from? I know its confusing but I don't know ANYONE personally that has gone through it before, so I was a little lost. Which I believe is understandable.
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