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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
It's natural to have faves.
Just don't let yourself get so caught up in them that you would withdraw if one of them (or all of them) cut you.
It happens alot. Girls say "well I only want these ones" then they drop out when those groups cut them. Even though they get invited back to alot of other places.
These are often the same girls who spend the next year talking about how they "like, really want to be in a sorority."
Well, you could've been hun, but you didn't want to give the other ones a shot.
Something else about faves:
I find that the chapters that are PNMs faves are the ones that EVERY OTHER PNM wants to be be in!
Logically speaking girls, everyone cannot be in "The Favorite" so make sure you give everyone a fair and honest look.
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Great Advice! It is easy to get caught up and excited, but keep in mind that membership in a sorority is an amazing thing, you can be happy and have a great experience in a number of different places, and you will get out of your membership what you put into it no matter where you go. I had friends that joined a so called "top chapter" and they were miserable because they didn't follow what they wanted to do and only followed their friends.
Good luck!!!!
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