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Originally Posted by adpiucf
If you're passing a PNM off to another sister so she can meet more people, don't make her feel like she's being dumped!
As a PNM, I (internally) panicked when the rusher who greeted me at the start of the party said, "Well, it was nice talking to you, ADPiUCF. I'm going to leave you to chat with my sister Mary."
That made me think she didn't like me and I wouldn't get the option to return to that chapter!
PX's should tell their PNM's that it is good to meet lots of women at the parties and its ok if your initial rusher leaves you with someone else to get to know them!
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Great point!! Also, when I was bumped, I would also tell my bumper what the PNM had told me: "Hi adpiucf! Polly PNM and I were just talking about the upcoming football season, but I haven't had a chance to tell her about last year's amazing brunch before the Homecoming game!" or "Hi adpiucf! You and Polly PNM have so much to discuss - you both played soccer during high school!"
This keeps the conversation moving forward. When I rushed, I hated having to repeat myself to each sister because there was no transition.
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