KDlady80, legacies are extended a great deal of courtesy. I suspect that many of scary posts you read are the extreme horror stories and not the norm.
Like KSUViolet said, keep in mind that a lot depends on which organization you are talking about on which campus. In my own GLO some Chapters would be ecstatic if 2-3 legacies went through recruitment. In other places there are 2x quota worth of legacies participating. Even if they wanted to they can't extend bids to every legacy because the numbers simply won't allow it.
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