On Getting Married: How did you decide he or she was "the one"?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by KSigkid

Exactly - there's not really a right feeling, or a right moment. You just get to a point where you realize that he/she is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, the person you want to marry.

Yep. Not to be confused with always LIKING the person, never having doubts, and that person NEVER getting on your nerves.

People think that love has to be perfect for it to be "right." As with everything else in life, it is not perfect.

(Of course when you begin to scoff more often than not, it's a sign to move on )