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Originally Posted by AndrewPiChi
Now, a peaceful coexistance was preferable. Let each man rep his fraternity his own way, let chapters determine their own members, let the gentlemans agreement exist and let people stop complaining about it, let us all get along and stop wasting so much time and energy fighting on the issue and lets be about service and allow the fraternity to thrive and grow.
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This is what I've never understood - why this all wasn't resolved 30 years ago when the fraternity went co-ed nationally instead instead of now. I can understand why the all male chapters feel jerked around at this juncture, but you have to look at the other point of view.
It's one thing to say "every chapter is different" and understandably, every brother will not feel comfy in every chapter. But when you are a female at school A, join what you're told is a nationally co-ed fraternity, and then transfer to school B and feel put out before you even meet any of the brothers simply because of your sex - that's just not right.