Right to Challenge?

[displacedgreek]

I just finished rush not that long ago and knew I had gotten into the right sorority!

The younger girls (sophomores) I met were all really sweet and were interested in having fun just like me (even though I'm a junior)

But, I got a strange online message from a sister asking to meet with me after our composite pictures and I agreed.

After meeting her I found out a co-worker had badmouthed me to a sister after seeing on facebook that I got into this chapter. The sister was relaying the information to me since the sister who had talked to my co-worker simply passed along the information.

The situation is being portrayed like I took advantage of my friendship with the manager to get a special favor that no one else could have gotten and the sisters are saying my co-worker makes it sound like I was bragging about getting the time off and not using it appropriately and therefore did not really need it.

Regardless of the story they do not want to me continue in the sorority. I am really upset because I waited so long to get into the system and now I feel a real tension amongst the sisters and me. I don't know who my friends are and who wants me out.

What is best for me vs. what is best for the sorority? No one can tell me to leave and I know I have to make that choice myself, but should I tell Panhellenic? We just had elections and the old president thinks I have no backbone because they are bullying me when they ask me questions about the situation.

Advice would be greatly appreciated!