Chances?

[mjw1989]

Me and a few other friends rushed fraternities together with the intention of eventually pledging the same one (if we all agreed on one).

We ended up rushing 3 places we liked and got bids at 2 of them fairly quickly.

However we really like the 3rd one that didn't give us bids quickly. However recently my other friends have received bids while I haven't. They loved the first friend and you could tell so I'm not surprised when he got his bid first. But just recently my two other friends got bids. One of these friends made an absolute drunken fool of himself at a party they invited us to and threw up everywhere and was causing a ruckus. So I was shocked when he got a bid. Needless to say I'm pretty disappointed that my other friends have gotten bids at our top choice and I haven't. I consider myself to be a funny guy and it's not like I've been any less outgoing than my other friends when it comes to talking to the brothers. I honestly don't see why they've given out bids to my friends and not me.

I'm also a legacy at this fraternity...

Part of me just wants to just not go back and pledge at a fraternity where I had a pretty good time and they're a pretty reputable fraternity and I like the guys. And they gave me a bid during their first bid round w/ only a few other guys. So I feel like they really want me.

Should I keep going back? I think the fraternity in question is very aware that a lot of where we end up pledging depends on if all of us have bids or not. So I feel like I'll get one eventually, I just feel like I'm not as wanted. Is that normally the case when bids are handed out later?