Also, as a last point, I think in NPC interest in a GLO is good, but it's mostly about women that fit in with a chapters personality. Every year we have women that we are very interested in due to their resumes and recs and there is buzz about them. However, when they step through the door we struggle to find anything in common with them. This goes the other way too...maybe a woman had an average resume (still making all the GPA qualifications and such) and no rec, but she has the best personality and everybody is in love with her. In this PNMs case, she created a lot of buzz but the personality failed to match/work for us, and I think it is primarily because she only wanted to talk about us, not her. It made many women very skeptical about her intentions for researching these facts...was it because she loved us genuinely, loved us with an unhealthy obsession or was trying to trick herself in?
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