Hi everybody,
It's the April Fool here

and I have a small problem. My first cousin is getting married in early June and I'm excited for her. After months and months of planning the wedding, she called me tonight to say that one of her bridesmaids won't be able to be in the wedding and she asked if I'd like to replace her. I was excited and said I'd be honored. I got off the phone and my mother told me if it was her, she wouldn't do it because my cousin didn't ask me in the first place....only as a back-up

So, should I tell her no? We used to be close like when I was 13, but we've grown apart. Should I be honored or offended? Any advice? What would you do?