Can I?

[FreeRibbion]

I want to be Greek and I know which one I want to belong to, the problem is that I am an student athlete now and I am not sure if I can pledge and still be on the team..... I don't want to wait until Grad Chapter because I feel that I could still bring a lot to the organization now as a young African-American woman student athlete..... is there a way to do them both? both take a big commitment to do and I feel I could do it.....I know in the rush process you have to be solely dedicated to the organization but NCAA also is a big counter part......

What should I do or what can i do in this situation?

A friend of mine also wants to pledge and has talked to me about what she should do because her boyfriend is not supporting her but I have been low key about mine. One of her good friends is Greek already and i feel like if I was to tell her she would tell her friend. I know her friend knows she want to pledge and gives her hint to what should be be ready for, I just don't want it to seem like I am following her when i am not, I have just kept it a secret like it should be.