My advice? Relax, and let your daughter make decisions for herself. If she is happy where she is, let her be and be supportive. Be proud of your daughter no matter what sorority she's in, because at the end of the day, she's your daughter.
If she is happy, why would you encourage her to drop? You already said that she is shy. Why would you want her to go through recruitment again? If she goes through again, if the school is competitive, she could potentially end up getting released entirely. As a mom, I can't see how you could want that for her.
I'm sorry, but if it means more to you for your daughter to be in a top sorority with an active social calendar than it is for your daughter to be happy, then you need to re-evaluate your life and your priorities. I don't really think you'll get a ton of sympathy here, just because of the way this comes off.
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 10-19-2008 at 01:29 AM.
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