Is mutual selection really mutual?

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Originally Posted by RusheeNumero3

I did go to all the pref parties. Then I ranked them at the end. My Rho Chi told me that I should put down all 3 because it makes the computer freak out if you only put in 2.

Also. It's too late. I already rejected my bid. I got my bid at 10 and we had to decide by noon. And I didn't know what to do. I didn't want to go to bid day crying so I just went home.

I edited my post, once I saw that you did attend #1 and #2. Sorry about that.

As for the computer "freaking out" if you put down 2 choices only, that's Panhell's problem, not yours.

FWIW, I do feel your pain. I think you were giving some bad advice by the Rho Chi, as was I, when I rushed and I also ending up turning down my bid. I do not regret it, but I do regret listening to the advice of the Rho Chi. I would rather have gone bidless, than received a bid from a group that I didn't want.

Originally Posted by RusheeNumero3

I dunno it just really didn't feel right. Ugh. Oh well. I just feel stupid now.

If it didn't feel right, that's your instincts telling you something. I'm sorry that the result was disappointing but I think it's better to be a GDI than unhappy in the wrong group.