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this kind of has to deal with this. do any of you happen to have chapters that feel threatened by your specific chapter and go out of their way to find ANYTHING that they feel is dirty rushing? for example, a girl in my house knew someone from high school and the house that felt threatened by us saw a wall post & reported it to panhellenic. she ended up printing off her entire wall history with the PNM and showed it to the director. it's one thing to see it and report it, but another thing to go searching to try and find a way to get us in trouble.
what about PNMs "dirty rushing" you? a lot of us have noticed that girls who know they will be participating in recruitment tend to flock to us because they know we're part of a GLO. it's very hard to deal with because we don't want to come off as rude, snotty, stuck up, etc. but then again we also don't want to get our house in trouble. one of my friends had a girl calling her off the hook and she tried to be nice to her multiple times & finally said "look, i can't talk to you because i could get my house in trouble."
i was dirty rushed by a house and instead of helping them "omgosh everyone in my house LOVES you" it ultimately hurt them because it made me feel uncomfortable.
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