Thanks for your post 2cents!
I PM'd that one mom whose post was removed in the last 24 hours. I told her - among other things that I shared in a nice way y'all - that her post made me very sad.

I asked that perhaps instead of jumping on the bandwagon and perpetuating unhelpful comments about Gamma Phi Beta that maybe this mom could prevail upon her daughter to take the panhellenic high road.
I have not heard anything back.
I know that some of the negativism about Gamma Phi is entrenched with some of those who have only been in the south (old south?) and don't realize that perhaps in other areas of the country their groups are possibly in the same position as Gamma Phi is at Bama....or worse.

It sounds cliche to say but it's true -- ALL the NPC sororities are GREAT and to put one down is to bring your own down as well.
That's my 2 cents.