Issue...
I was just thinking about my upcoming informal recruitment and I thought of something that may be a small (could possibly be big IF taken in the wrong direction) issue for me in one of our five sororities.
As I said in an earlier post I will be rushing as a third year college student, not nessicarily(sp?) a junior as I have two more years after this. When I was a freshman I met a girl in one of my classes who also happened to live on my hall and we became really close for both semesters. However some random issues, I can't even really pinpoint what though I have an idea, came up and around the end of the year/beginning of the summer we just stopped talking and hanging out altogether. Recently she rushed and pledged a sorority on my campus and I was just thinking that it would kind of be awkward for me to rush informally at that sorority with her there but I'm not so sure I want to skip ABC because:
A) As I said above we only have 5 npc sororities.
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B) Even informally I want to check them all out.
My question is this, do you think I should plan around ABC or just go for it and 'ignore' her, for lack of a better term? If the latter is the answer any ideas on what I can do to avoid confrontation would be appreciated.
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