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[ilovemyglo]

I am going to post this question because i am sure I am not the only one to find this and I want to seriously and respectfully ask my sisters how to deal with a situation.

I recently had the opportunity to speak with a chapter advisor about possibly assisting her chapter. They are struggling to find an alum sister that is able to assist in many capacities (advisor as well as recruitment help, etc).

There are many sisters in my city and no chapter and I am not the only one interested- did I mention I am the current JC president working on getting a great JC going?

I approached the chapter advisor and was basically told that no sister from my chapter "knows" how to do certain things, and also that our help although appreciated we offered, is not wanted.

So I am sort of frustrated and curious- if they need assistance and have people willing and able to, why would she rebuff our offer? Also I have found out this advisor has continued to complain to alums and IHQ that she has a lack of support and help.

How should I handle this?