I love this site and another one that a Soror who I know created:
http://stuffprofessionalblackpeoplelike.blogspot.com
And there is a third list about what educated Black women like.
In many cases for me, it's true, particularly about NPHC orgs and conferences. The wedding stuff is partially true -- back in 1992, I drove from Knoxville to Tallahassee, Fla., to attend my FAMU-alumna friend's wedding.