What Would You Do?

[bgsugirlie]

We've had a lot of problems going on in sorority lately and I was hoping that you guys would be able to give me some advice or a different perspective on the issue...

Some of our sisters (mainly the newly initiated sisters) have not been acting in an appropriate manner. They've basically been sluttin around. We're not exactly sure what to do about it either, but we're starting to get a reputation for it. Our exec has tried telling ALL the girls that they represent our sorority all the time even when they are not wearing letters. We've told them that sleeping with guys isn't going to earn them respect. We've told them that sleeping with guys isn't going to make the guy want to date them. And we've told them that when they finally find the right guy they want to be with, they may ruin their chances of starting a relationship because they are used goods. The problem is that it just doesn't seem to be getting through to them. Our older sisters have set a good example for them so I'm not sure why they think it's appropriate to act this way. We've tried talking to them to see if there are underlying issues but nothing seems to work. we've even had an STD talk at meeting. I know we can't stop them...it is their own life and they have to make their own decisions. I also understand that it is their freshman year, the first time they've been subjected to fraternity guys, and they want to have fun...but things have just been going a little too far. What to we do?