Vanilla- This sorority is amazing, they stand for everthing I have ever dreamed about standing for. They are very respectful of each others feelings and the pledges as well. I attended a seminar recently where we talked about some of the tenets of their sorority. I was so nervous. They didn't make it seem like an interview, they participated with the pledges--and that is what really opened my heart to them; but I am having a problem... I am so nervous. I am being myself in all aspects, and I am definitely honest but I am afraid they really aren't into me. Well, a few of them seemed to be. I need to know what most sororities are looking for. I have so many stereotypes from former friends, and I can't erase them out of my head. I know for certain that sorority girls aren't that mean unless you give them a reason to be

; but I want to know more.