This is one of the reasons that they have "silence" (when you said the girls weren't to speak to each other).
It sounds to me like the other girl that preffed ABC was trying to uphold their social standing. In other words, it doesn't mean squat. Your D didn't turn on her friends. She followed her heart.
I wouldn't have her worried about cross-cutting (BTW...if you use search, you will be able to find it on the forum. Your D did exactly what she was suppose to do. Maximize her options.
If she gets DEF and her ABC friends are mad, well then, they are really not friends. If she gets DEF, she will make many new friends that will stand by her regardless of her future choices, and that is what is important.
So when is bid day?
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