the nitty gritty info for rush

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by misstip12

hey ladies

how large are the groups that go to visit each of the houses?
is one PNM matched up with one sorority sister or two PNM with 1 sister- how does that usually work?
how many sisters do you generally talk with and for how long?
from the other post i found out what not to say =P but i'm still wondering what you talk about with a total stranger- do you just ask each other what majors each of you are and how you like the school and stuff like that?

*Group sizes depend on the # of girls participating in recruitment. For example, my school had like 120 girls total rushing so the groups were only 15 girls each.

*The length of the parties gets longer each day. For example, day 1 parties at my school were 20 minutes, while Pref (final) parties are one hour long.

*The # of sisters you talk to will also vary. In the first few rounds, the parties are shorter, so you will talk to more sisters in an effort to help you meet as many girls as you can in a short time. The later rounds, the parties are meant to be a more in depth look at the sorority, so you will spend more time talking to one or 2.

*The sisters will initiate the conversation. Most of them have been through formal recruitment before and know how to hold a conversation. It helps if you ask questions and not let the sister do all the talking.

*Keep in mind that some of the sorority sisters are doing recruitment for the first time, so they will be nervous just like you. So don't be upset if you get paired with someone who doesn't talk alot or struggles with the conversation. It doesn't mean they don't like you.