If you really want to be in a sorority, your best bet is, like your friend said, to go to a less competitive greek system at a smaller school. I know of many foreign exchange students from all classes joining where I went to school, but again, I went to a very small, private liberal arts university. It's a whole different ball game at bigger schools! Good luck.
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