will I be okay?

[meliss]

Well next year I am planning to rush (I'm a sr. in high school- i know I don't belong here but I've been reading! jk) and i was a little worried, wondering... I'm not the most outgoing person, I'm kinda shy in groups. People think I'm nice and sweet when they meet me, I can talk to someone one-on-one no problem, but if theres a group of say four people i don't know well, I'll tend not to say much. People who meet me automatically know I'm a reserved person-- though it can be a different story when i get comfortable! I'm just wondering if this is gonna make things hard for me, if I'm not gonna be invited to join any sororities b/c it takes me awhile to get comfy with a group. Given that I'll definitely be making an effort to get to know people but I'm not sure how well I'm gonna do, is this gonna be a big disadvantage for me? Basically, what are they looking for, is being super-outgoing a big part of it? I'd appreciate anything anyone has to say!! thank you. meliss