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Originally posted by The Original Ape
...the spirit and personality? Don't that take time and a willingness on his part to reveal those things?
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hi TOA, nice meeting you!

that's a good point, since everyone usually puts on a "game face"--you know, what we want others to see...
oh, but i believe that when women make a conscious choice to OPEN OUR EYES, EARS, AND MINDS, we can tell lots about a man while he's "rollin'"--whether he's willing to reveal it (or we're willing to accept it) or not!
to answer the question, i always notice(d) personality, viewpoint and intelligence
first.
(ladies, listen and ponder CAREFULLY what a man says FROM THE BEGINNING--you can learn a lot about an individual from jump street!)
TRU