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sticky situation
I have a pretty sticky situation coming my way and I would like some advice. This is LONG...and soap opera-ish
I work with a girl, Missy, who I am really great friends with and who is getting married in April.
Missy's maid of honor is Saundra, another coworker of mine.
Enter Jana and her husband Travis. Jana is also in Missy's wedding, and is ultra close with Saundra. (Missy and Saundra were both in her wedding). Travis is one of my ex boyfriends.
All 4 of us girls have known each other since high school.
Problem: Jana and I arent friends anymore. After Travis and I broke up, he began dating Jana a year later. No biggie, but I knew for a fact he was cheating on Jana with as many as 4 or 5 other girls. Because she was my friend, I wanted to tell her what a creep she was dating - but she had lost both parents, and was kind of needy of love. To make a long story short, although she knew I was telling the truth, she chose to be with him and end our friendship.
All these years later, we have managed to avoid each other - which is hard since we share the same friends...and I am the one who usually backs out of events so I dont have to see them. Oh yeah, I still know girls who he is sleeping with behind her back.
So how am I to handle this wedding. There are tons of showers and parties we are throwing, and just knowing Jana will be there makes me want to skip them all...but I dont want to miss out on celebrating Missy's big day.
How should I handle this??
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