Joining an Alum Group Question

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Ok, I need some advice. I graduated in 2004 up in VA and now live in Augusta, GA. I went to a couple planning meetings for state day that the Augusta Alum chapter was planning back in 2005 I think when I first moved here and attended state day and paid my dues for that year. I have not attended an event since or paid dues but I'm still on the e-mail list so I still hear about events that are happening, etc. I didn't feel all that comfortable with the ladies - most of them were older than me and had families and careers and I was a new alum and was single so I felt we had little in common. At the time, I also worked evenings so it was hard for me to stay involved. I really miss being involved in ZTA but my question is should I try again with these ladies and hope that maybe there are some newer girls closer to my age that may have come from the collegiate chapter here or should I try another chapter close-by (there's one in Aiken, SC, about 30 minutes away from me, that I hear has several younger members and may be more my speed)?

I appreciate any advice y'all can give me!

ZL,
Melissa