still in the stages

Originally Posted by curiousaboutsor

there are a couple of frat parties this weekend, would it be bad if i went to one of these parties if im still in the recruitment stages? im going with friends and will not get drunk

YES.

If you care enough about your recruitment, you'll stay far, far away.

You'll have lots and lots of fraternity parties to go to. Missing out on a few of them isn't the end of the world.