Looking for some perspective about recruitment...
So I've been breezing through this site on and off for the past couple of months trying to decide whether or not to go through recruitment. Learning from some of the posts I've read, I've chosen not to disclose my location or school. I will say that I am somewhere in the western half of the US, I'm a junior transfer, and the time for me to make the decision to rush or not is fast approaching. I'm genuinely torn about it. On the one hand I almost feel that I'm too old to do it and wouldn't have much in common with the 17 and 18 year olds that I'd being going through it with. But on the other hand I want to make the best of my time on campus by being really involved and meet a lot of new people. Being apart of greek life seems to be a good way to do this. A close friend of mine was in a sorority as an undergrad and has been encouraging me to at least try it. But my boyfriend who was in a fraternity as an undergrad doesn't think it's a good idea. I literally have a few days to decide and as of right now don't know what I'm going to do. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions for me? Some perspective from outside my circle could be helpful. Thanks everyone!
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