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Originally Posted by lauralaylin
I had mastitis twice too, and the first time I had to be admitted into the hospital for two days. I think I stuck with BF only because my FIL was really pressuring me to, and I was so hormonal and tired I couldn't stand up for myself. I'm glad I pushed through, but I completely understand why anyone wouldn't do it after that. Way too painful, no one tells you about that!
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Sorry for the double post, but it's really unfortunate that your FIL (I assume that means Father In Law? -- I can't keep up with all of this internet shorthand) pressured you. That's where a husband should come in and support whatever decision you make since the mother is in a highly emotional time. It's your decision and nobody elses -- especially parents and inlaws.
As for the pain, not all women experience a lot of pain after the initial start. There are a lot of factors involved. If there's a problem, get some help. If the problem goes on, make your own decision on what to do.
Please understand that I am a strong supporter of breastfeeding, and almost all women can do it. The percentage of babys who can't thrive on mother's milk is extremely small (exceptions are often for alergies), but for some it really doesn't work.