Why did you decide to join a sorority?

[jelly]

They say there is a sorority for everyone so i'm thinking about rushing. The girls in my high school that are joining sororities are the so call "popular" girls which is kind of deterring to me b/c I don't know if it is something I'd fit into.

It seems as if these girls just want to join one just to continue that feeling of being "popular" and "cliqued off" from the rest of the people in college maybe b/c that's where their confidence lies.

Also, I don't know how to put this really but you can say their moral values are not very high...and I was wondering if this is in general how the girls in sororities were.

And my last sort of question/concern was what is the relationship between the fraternities and sororities? Do the drunk fraternity guys at the parties try to hit on you and stuff? (ew lol)