Frustrated by boys

[Miami1839]

Originally posted by James
I don't thnk Amy said she didn't like him because he was too nice. She is just sayin he is very nice, which probably makes it harder to break the news to him. People keep forgeting that no matter how "nice" you are ( and I am not sure what that means anyway) there still has to be some type of physical attraction or sparks to seperate a lover from a friend. And isn't that usually the diference? A friend is a nice person we like but usually don't sleep with?

But Amy, if you keep leading the poor guy on the least you can do is escalate the physoical relationship for him. Because you are the one creating the expectation. I hope he is not spending a lot of money on you.

So which would be easier, telling him you don't like him and offending him (and ladies mostly guys ae offended instead of being hurt) or sleeping with him. You might not want to answer that in a public forum.



James, I see what your saying. When I finished writing that I thought of that notion. I can see how it would be difficult in certin instances to cut off a relationship with someone you saw as more of a friend. However, I will say relationships take work, but then again if its not there its not there. I think everyone should be burned one good time to really face reality. At least the girls that think they are going to make a player into a loving husband.