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Originally posted by Optimist Prime
I can appreciate not wanting to presured by a pushy guy, BUT, if you make a date and then cancel, you suck. That is the absolute worst thing to do to a guy. It is comprable to a guy you were dating sleeping with your sister. None of his friends will ever like you again. Pledges to his fraternity will be told either the full story, or not to ask, and will generally avoid you. Then will have friends who are in other fraternities (at college, from back home, on greekchat, etc) and will tell them and then it keeps growing and growing. You be blacklisted by people who knew him, and everyone else will have a heads up and be wary and will think you are cheating on them, or will be suspicous.
Other than that, I agree. I'm not exactly Mr. Hot Shot and when I try to be I look like a jack ass. So I try natural confidence.
Billy
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Hmmm is that true? I was thinking of cancelling my date tonight... I won't, because its after 3pm now and I think that's rude--but I've wanted to cancel all day. I'm just not feeling it with this guy-- I like him, he's fun and nice-- but that's it, and I am exhausted and I broke my toe this morning and my ex boyfriend's wedding pics are in a national magazine that came out today and was just generally thinking it would be better to cancel than subject this guy to my funky mood.
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