Rastaone I sucks that you guys are dealing with this, but time will work things out.
My advice is to make sure that guys that do want to be social, have fun, meet girls, etc get put into key positions. Chiefly Recruitment Chair, Pledge Master, and Social Chair.
Those positions will allow you to pick the men you want, teach them how they should conduct themselves, and have good times that will create experiences you will remember forever.
It's unfortunate that some people think that alcohol and social conduct don't work...I don't know what the hell those kids are going to do in the real world. Every job I've had (since I was 16) threw parties and had massive amounts of alcohol. Now I'm in the military and in Germany...let's just say that if I didn't not learn how to conduct myself around alcohol I'd be extremely embarrassed by now. Those kids are really hurting themselves in the long run.
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