i want to reiterate that there is a distinct possiblilty that the sorority does not realize that you must wait until the fall before you can pledge another group. i agree with the suggestion that you contact whomever invited you to the sisterhood event and tell them that you would love to attend the event and get to know more about them, but you wanted them to know that you will not be able to accept a bid until the fall.
DO try to get reccomendations to as many of the sororities as you can before fall recruitment rolls around. it won't hurt you to have a rec. for each house, but it [I]may[I] hurt you not having them. ask former teachers, your friends parents, your parents friends and co-workers, relatives and the girl you know from the swimming pool. as otw told you in your other thread, a rec. written to "abc" sorority just needs to be written by a member of "abc, not a member of "abc" at your school.
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