http://www.forbes.com/home/2006/08/2...x_mn_land.html
i like point/counterpoint type articles.
2 things about me: i tend to go with logic. i don't want to be married.
so it makes sense that i would agree with the man's POV. all his research is there. but in the end it seems like "if a woman has a stable career, and if you marry her, then a, b, and c, will happen, so ha! don't marry her!"
on the other hand, the woman's argument isnt any better: she seems to be saying "suck it up you big baby! MY marriage worked; whats wrong with YOU?"
i'm still digesting.