Advice for HIGH SCHOOL senior (sticky situation)

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Straight talk is key. It will be up to him and his mom to take the good info you give to him and make something of it. The USNews web site is a good place to begin. For only $15 you can access their colleges report. He can see for himself the grades and scores he would need to get into certain schools, and also look at different geographic locations, and programs he hasn't considered.

I'd also look online and make him take the Myers-Briggs test so he can gague what kinds of jobs he might enjoy-- to give him a direction to pursue in college.

I agree that if he can't get into a 4-year school, a community college in another location far away from the temptations of his "home boys" is a good way to begin. In Florida, successfully completing an AA guarantees you admission to any 4 year public school in the state to finish up your BA/BS. So, for example, let's say he moves to Orlando and attends Valencia Community College. After getting his AA, he could move on to UCF, USF, FAU, UF, etc., to get his 4-year degree.

Sounds like the boy could use a change of scenery and a heart-to-heart with some straight up facts -- maybe a get together with his guidance counselor, too.

ETA: It's possible to go to college without scholarships or a trust fund. Although I had very good grades in HS in everything except for math, I was shut out of the high yield scholarships b/c of my poor math scores. I got by with student loans. Merit scholarships came later when I was in college. It is possible to make it all happen, and college debt, while debt, is a good kind of debt-- he will have greater earning potential with a college degree.

ETA: Another ETA... Is he a racial minority? I hate to sound un-PC, but coming from a diverse background, or being an under-represented minority can win you some scholarships and college acceptances. Use every advantage you've got.